FINALLY, someone gets it!
http://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/good-man-catcall-street-harassment-guys-guide/
Now, I don't consider myself a feminist at all. I like it when guys hold open doors for me, take care of me, and act chivalrous towards women in general. I also find the fact that the above link is called the "Good Men Project" a bit disturbing. But I can most certainly agree that shouting to a girl in the middle of the street telling her how nice her ass is, is most definitely not the way to her heart.
When you do that, you're pretty much saying, "hi, I only see you as a piece of meat, so I am going to treat you as such."
Not cool.
I've spent a good majority of my teenage years/young adult life getting these sort of cat-calls. And let me tell you now, it is most certainly not due to the way I dress. I've had this happen to me in the summer, fall, winter, and spring. Whether I am dressed head to toe, or in a pair of short shorts and a tank top, I will be the recipient of this kind of unwanted attention. I don't ask for it, and I most certainly don't want it. Sometimes it's nothing more than a whoop or a holler, a car honk, or a whistle. But sometimes it's something more degrading like "I WANT TO SUCK YOUR P*SSY."
Honestly, I could go on and on about how inappropriate is kind of behavior is to women and the underlying issues that arise with it, but I think this article sums it up quite nicely. As you can see, there's a very clear distinction between going up to a girl, introducing yourself, looking her in the eye, and telling her that she's beautiful...or telling her that you'd like to f*ck her titties.
Don't do that.
Friday, September 7, 2012
Wednesday, August 8, 2012
Monday, July 16, 2012
what I wore 12
The sun has finally arrived in Seattle!
top: Hollister Co.
shorts: thrifted
cardigan: thrifted
sunglasses: Calvin Klein
shoes: Sears (lol)
Sunday, July 1, 2012
my latest obsession~
Wow, triple post today! You guys are lucky ;)
I've mentioned earrings like these before in this blog. However, I've been secretly building up a small collection of them since late last year. They're so much fun! They're very unique and I get tons of compliments on them everywhere I go ^^
I've mentioned earrings like these before in this blog. However, I've been secretly building up a small collection of them since late last year. They're so much fun! They're very unique and I get tons of compliments on them everywhere I go ^^
And I'm still expanding my collection! I've recently ordered two more, coming from Indonesia. So I'm probably going to have to wait about 1-2 months before they get here XD but it's worth the wait! I get these all from etsy, from various sellers:
Leginayba (SALE OMG)
what I wore 11
I wasn't going to do another one of these tonight, but I did anyway ^^
This poncho was pretty much the best thing I bought in Peru. It's so cute! And it surprisingly does a really good job at keeping me warm, especially through those nights when we were in hotels with no heater ;_; The best part is, when you sit down, it drapes over your knees, so it looks like you have a blanket on :D
poncho: purchased in Peru
shorts: DEB
boots: Vince Camuto outlet store
hoodie underneath: Gilly Hicks
what I wore 1o
It's been a while since I've done one of these!
I'd love to bring back my old goth girl style to my wardrobe. But I've got to figure out how to do that without looking like a fifteen year old. @_@
I'd love to bring back my old goth girl style to my wardrobe. But I've got to figure out how to do that without looking like a fifteen year old. @_@
blouse: Dorothy Perkins
vest: Mirror Guangzhou
shorts: thrifted
boots: Vince Camuto outlet store
eyeshadow: Fyrinnae Cosmetics in Velvet Vampire
Sunday, June 24, 2012
New art blog on tumblr
I've decided to create a new blog that will be completely dedicated to my artwork. I'll still be using this one, but only for blogging about the usual y'know, fashion, undies, stuff like that :)
So if you're interested in seeing more work in progresses, speedpaints, doodles, etc., feel free to follow me: http://meganmissfit.tumblr.com/
So if you're interested in seeing more work in progresses, speedpaints, doodles, etc., feel free to follow me: http://meganmissfit.tumblr.com/
Monday, June 18, 2012
Etsy shop + Punk Rock Flea Market, this weekend!
If anyone is interested, I've finally opened up an Etsy shop, selling prints of my artwork. Please feel free to take a look, and tell your friends! ^^ You can find it >>>>>here<<<<<
Also, for all you Seattlites out there, I will be vending this weekend at the Punk Rock Flea Market in downtown Seattle. It's this Saturday, June 23rd, from 10am-8pm at the Underground Events Center in Belltown.
Also, for all you Seattlites out there, I will be vending this weekend at the Punk Rock Flea Market in downtown Seattle. It's this Saturday, June 23rd, from 10am-8pm at the Underground Events Center in Belltown.
flyer (c) Stasia Burrington
I'll be selling prints of my artwork, along with some old clothes of mine. For more information about the market, check out their website here! [link]
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Peru!
Fear not, friends! My lack of recent posting has been a result of me being in Peru :D (actually I wasn't gone for that long so I doubt many of you have noticed...) I also had final exams prior to that, I guess...
But anyway, I really enjoyed this trip. There were many ups and downs, but more ups than downs. I have spent many trips visiting big cities across Europe and Asia, so this time I wanted something a little different. I wanted to get away from the city, to someplace that was completely new to me. Obviously, Peru isn't exactly uncharted territory, but it most certainly satisfied my craving for an adventure.
I'm not going to go on a day-to-day account of what I did/where I was, because that would be stupidly boring to read. But in a nutshell, we flew from Seattle, to Houston, to Lima, then to Cusco. We spent a couple of days in Cusco first, before taking a bus to Ollantaytambo. From there we rode on a train to Aguascalientes, which is a small village/town right near Machu Picchu, which we hiked around for a day. After that, we then made our way back to Cusco, spent another day there, then flew to Lima, spent a half day there, and flew home via Houston. I just came home this morning! Traveling is so exhausting. Writing about traveling is so exhausting.
But wow! It felt like I had stepped onto a different planet, or even time period. Everything was just so different. There were very few things that reminded me of home. No chain stores, no McDonald's, no similar language, landscape, zilch! The lack of familiarity was a bit nerve racking at first, but later became thrilling. I came here to see something new, and I got exactly what I wanted.
The differing culture was the most fascinating thing of all, as it was nothing like mine. While Lima was more Spanish influenced, Cusco/Aguascalientes/Machu Picchu was definitely more native. I constantly saw people wearing traditional clothing, eating/serving traditional food (including Cuy! Everywhere), and overall preserving the pre-Spanish culture. It was as if the whole place was preserved in time. It definitely felt ancient. Well, it was ancient.
Of course, the highlight of the trip was visiting Machu Picchu. Even though it is a very frequently visited and huge tourist attraction, it still felt...incredibly isolated. I mean, just getting to the place was a long and arduous journey, which took us literally in the middle of nowhere. Looking around the top of the mountain, you can barely see any other sign of civilization. All you see is wilderness. This feeling, paired with the fact that you were thousands of feet up in the mountains and practically touching the sky, made for an incredibly exhilarating, yet haunting experience. No wonder why the Incans chose to live up here.
This trip was like trying out a new dish. You cook the same shit over and over again, and you get sick of it. So you try out a new recipe that your friend recommends to you. You like it. You really like it. You want to re-experience it over and over again. This is what going to South America feels like. I'm definitely coming back for more. Next time, maybe...Iguazu, perhaps? I'm open to suggestions ;)
But anyway, I really enjoyed this trip. There were many ups and downs, but more ups than downs. I have spent many trips visiting big cities across Europe and Asia, so this time I wanted something a little different. I wanted to get away from the city, to someplace that was completely new to me. Obviously, Peru isn't exactly uncharted territory, but it most certainly satisfied my craving for an adventure.
I'm not going to go on a day-to-day account of what I did/where I was, because that would be stupidly boring to read. But in a nutshell, we flew from Seattle, to Houston, to Lima, then to Cusco. We spent a couple of days in Cusco first, before taking a bus to Ollantaytambo. From there we rode on a train to Aguascalientes, which is a small village/town right near Machu Picchu, which we hiked around for a day. After that, we then made our way back to Cusco, spent another day there, then flew to Lima, spent a half day there, and flew home via Houston. I just came home this morning! Traveling is so exhausting. Writing about traveling is so exhausting.
But wow! It felt like I had stepped onto a different planet, or even time period. Everything was just so different. There were very few things that reminded me of home. No chain stores, no McDonald's, no similar language, landscape, zilch! The lack of familiarity was a bit nerve racking at first, but later became thrilling. I came here to see something new, and I got exactly what I wanted.
The differing culture was the most fascinating thing of all, as it was nothing like mine. While Lima was more Spanish influenced, Cusco/Aguascalientes/Machu Picchu was definitely more native. I constantly saw people wearing traditional clothing, eating/serving traditional food (including Cuy! Everywhere), and overall preserving the pre-Spanish culture. It was as if the whole place was preserved in time. It definitely felt ancient. Well, it was ancient.
omfg it's ME! And I've got no arms!
Of course, the highlight of the trip was visiting Machu Picchu. Even though it is a very frequently visited and huge tourist attraction, it still felt...incredibly isolated. I mean, just getting to the place was a long and arduous journey, which took us literally in the middle of nowhere. Looking around the top of the mountain, you can barely see any other sign of civilization. All you see is wilderness. This feeling, paired with the fact that you were thousands of feet up in the mountains and practically touching the sky, made for an incredibly exhilarating, yet haunting experience. No wonder why the Incans chose to live up here.
Another thing that really struck me about Peru was the night sky. Never in my life have I seen so many stars! In Seattle, you can't even see the sky itself half the time, as it is covered with clouds. There's also the gratuitous amounts of light pollution just from being in the city. You hardly see any stars around here. When I first got off of the train in Aguascalientes, I looked up into the sky to take in my surroundings, and my jaw dropped down to the ground. The sky was gorgeous, completely littered with stars. It was a breathtaking sight indeed. Definitely not something you can see in the city.
This trip was like trying out a new dish. You cook the same shit over and over again, and you get sick of it. So you try out a new recipe that your friend recommends to you. You like it. You really like it. You want to re-experience it over and over again. This is what going to South America feels like. I'm definitely coming back for more. Next time, maybe...Iguazu, perhaps? I'm open to suggestions ;)
Monday, June 4, 2012
Saturday, June 2, 2012
deviant decor
I saw this seller at the U-District Street Fair a couple weeks ago, and I really liked her stuff! If I could afford, I would totally have things like this on my walls. It's weird and quirky, but it won't scare away your houseguests.
art (c) Krystal Kerr
art (c) Krystal Kerr
Her etsy shop can be found here.
Monday, May 21, 2012
what I wore o9
I just got Photoshop CS5, and this is my first attempt to draw on it...it's surprisingly hard to get used to! ;o;
and yes, I have longer hair now! :D
top: H&M Guangzhou
cardigan: Pitaya boutique
boots: Nordstrom Rack
purse: forzieri.com
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Anna Karenina...the movie?!
I actually reeeeeally love Russian literature. I've considered learning the language just so I can read all the things in their original text. I've heard so many wonderful things about the language, how poetic and expressive it can be. It's actually voted one of the world's greatest literary languages. Haha, totally nerding out right now.
But anyways, yes! It's coming out November of this year. Starring Keira Knightley and Jude Law. I'm excited, but I also am hoping that they don't ruin it. I like Keira Knightley as an actress though, she does a good job with historical dramas in my humble opinion.
But guhhh...I actually haven't gotten very far into the book yet. I started it last summer, but then I got way too busy and eventually had to put it in the backburner for a while. Hopefully that won't happen this summer, because what I've read so far I actually quite liked. SO NO SPOILERS.
By the way, I know that this isn't the first Anna Karenina movie ever made. I haven't seen any of the old ones though.
Monday, April 23, 2012
I don't have nearly enough pretty dresses in my life.
Like this one, by Betsey Johnson.
God, I've always wanted to own something by her. But cannot afford :(
God, I've always wanted to own something by her. But cannot afford :(
It was really sunny in Seattle today, like, completely cloudless and near 70 degree weather. So everyone, including myself, was in a pretty dress. Which is what warranted this post ^^
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
what I wore, Sakura-con edition
I didn't cosplay, but I did dress for the occasion :D
Friday:
top: Gilly Hicks (another part of an old uniform lol)
shorts: thrifted (originally from American Eagle)
socks: American Apparel
boots: Nordstrom
eyeshadow: Shiro Cosmetics in Sweet Honey
Saturday:
top: H&M Hong Kong
bandeau: Aerie
shorts: DEB
boots: Nordstrom Rack
goggles: cyb3rburn on eBay
eyeshadow: Shiro Cosmetics in Party Escort
Sunday:
dress: Gilly Hicks
cardigan: Pitaya boutique
boots: gifted
Monday, April 16, 2012
Sunday, April 15, 2012
Saturday, April 14, 2012
hair
I've decided, that after I quit Gilly Hicks (I'm not seriously planning to anytime soon, but let's face it, I'm not staying here forever), and find another really cool/chill job, I'm going to dye my hair some crazy color. Not completely, but just some highlights, maybe on my bangs or something.
I mean, I'm all for embracing your natural beauty, which is the kind of look that Abercrombie and Fitch looks for in their employees. But honestly, this looks like way too much fun.
My personal style can get pretty flamboyant at times. I like wearing out-there, attention-grabbing outfits. I love turning heads. You may call me an attention whore in that aspect, and you'd probably be right. At Sakura-con, I saw many people with crazy colors in their hair, and honestly, I was extremely envious. Right now, my hair is nothing praise-worthy. I'm in the process of growing it out, and volume-wise it's pretty pathetic. It kinda just does...nothing. It's never been the most interesting part of my look. I kinda want to change that. I mean, I'm still an undergrad, so I'm not really looking into trying to get an uber-serious, professional job anytime soon. You're only young once, right?
I'm particularly leaning towards a lavender, lilac-y color for highlights. I don't have nearly enough purple in my wardrobe. And I'm kind of obsessed with pastels right now.
And just a disclaimer, in case anyone accidentally misinterprets this post. In no way am I insecure about my looks. I know that I am good looking, and I know that I do not need to go to extremities with my hair/makeup/clothing to look good. I merely dress the way I do because it's fun, simple as that. C:
I mean, I'm all for embracing your natural beauty, which is the kind of look that Abercrombie and Fitch looks for in their employees. But honestly, this looks like way too much fun.
I'm particularly leaning towards a lavender, lilac-y color for highlights. I don't have nearly enough purple in my wardrobe. And I'm kind of obsessed with pastels right now.
all images via [x]
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
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